Sunday, 21 June 2015

WE ALL HAVE SCARS

Scars are part of living. We all have them.

We don’t get scared because we’re reckless or stupid but because we dare to open ourselves up to life’s experiences.  

Some people hide their scars in pretence. They get so deeply consumed in convincing everyone that they’re flawless by trying too hard and working too hard. In turn they lose the very essence of who they are and fail to attract and maintain what is genuine into their lives. They create hollow spaces within themselves that can’t hold what is true.

Some people willow in the pain of their fall and fail to realise even when that pain is gone. They remain wounded in their minds and fear pain forever; losing sight of what waits beyond the hurt.

Yet scars can be beautiful.


My favourite scars are the ones that tell stories of boldness and adventure. These stories bear folds of wisdom that can be shared with those who haven’t walked the same path.  They help us realise just how far we’ve come and how much we’ve grown. They help us laugh at our mishaps and forgive ourselves and others. When we tell our stories, we flaunt our scars as stamps of victory.